I like to post about a variety of things. My blog is kind of all over the place. The posts that always get the most views are the ones that are controversial in some way. Sometimes I choose controversial topics on purpose in order to get more views.
But a lot of things that seem like no-brainers are controversial now. Things like “camel toe is inappropriate for work” and “holding Republican politicians to one standard and Democrats to another is hypocritical” have gotten me some very strong backlash, both on WordPress and on Facebook.
Of course, that doesn’t mean I’m not going to say them anyway.
So far as I know, only one person on Facebook has unfriended me over the views I express in my blog. But I have noticed something interesting about some of my Facebook friends: they only comment on my posts when they disagree with me. Not on my posts about travel, movies, the funny things my students say, or any of my other benign topics. Nope, only (or almost only) the political ones, and only to disagree. It’s very disagreeable.
Granted, there aren’t very many such friends. I don’t plan at this time to unfriend them, but it does make me wonder why I friended them in the first place. I think the lesson from this is that quality matters over quantity, and I’ll only friend people on Facebook that I truly connect and want to keep in touch with.